Yes, this is exactly what it sounds like and I don’t care what yall think.  You can call it being conceited but I call it being honest.  Today I’m speaking for the ladies because I know I’m not the only one who feels this way.

Today, I figured out the number reason, why men curse out women.  It’s not because we get smart with them & it’s not because we try and get buck with them.  It’s all because their ego can’t handle a simple rejection & 90% of the time the man has no business at all trying to holla at the female anyway.  What do I mean?  Let me explain myself, in layman’s term.

If you a broke down looking dude, with no ambition, who looks a mess and is basically not my type then you have NO BUSINESS trying to holla at me.  I’m not the best looking person in the world but I’m no ugly duckling and I never hit the streets ever looking a mess.  So I wonder what makes someone who is “not on my level” try to even holla at me.  I’m not just speaking of looks, I’m also speaking of ambition.  I don’t care how good you look if you on the corner all day, ain’t no way you and I can possibly have anything.  And men don’t act like you don’t know when a woman is out of your league.

But I must admit, you men have a lot of heart and guts; one would think you could deal with rejection a little better.  I damn near got cursed out by a group of guys today because I didn’t respond to the wonderful greeting of “Yo, What up Ma?”  I ignore crap like that, take a note from Luther Vandross and try, “Excuse me miss.”

I’m going to play devil’s advocate just for a second because what if I believe that I’m actually on a higher level than what I’m actually on.  That means that I need to be brought down just a little bit and maybe these horrible men are actually on my level.  Honestly men who I believe are on my level are not the type to be hollering at you on the streets and if they do, they do it in a very respectful way.

So men before you try and holla at a female ask yourself this one question: Do I look like her type?  If you have to think about it, then she’s probably not.  And PLEASE PLEASE find a new method when it comes to hollering at women.  We hate the “Yo, Ma,” “Hey Baby,” “Hey Sexy.” Scratch that shit and try something new.  And stop waiting for the woman to pass you before you speak because we all know that you want to see how fat the ass is before you holla.  Women, revaluate the level you think you on because some of us may not be as high as we think we are.


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