I’ve been asking men this question for as long as I can remember and no one has really given me a straight answer.  Just last week I was watching something (I can’t recall, but probably some reality tv show) and like an epiphany the answer hits me.  What’s that question you ask?  WHY THE HELL DO MEN WIFE CRAZY ASS WOMEN, HOES & JUMP OFFS?

Now I consider myself an easy going, understandable person when it comes to relationships.  I don’t have any issues with my man hanging with his boys, giving him space, leaving him alone during his “sports time.”  If you include my flyness, comedic skills, ambition in life and an alright attitude (lol) I could be any man’s perfect woman.

Almost every woman I know that’s married, is the type that will bust up in the club with her night clothes on and will pull your ass out.  She will call you every 20 minutes just to check in on you.  I started to ask myself…..Is that how I have to be in order for a man to pop the question to me?  If it is I’ll pass because that’s not a part of my character, I like to live my life as stress free as possible.  Don’t get me wrong, I’ve done a couple of questionable things but all within reason.

So, whatever program I was watching made me realize that, that man was only with that crazy ass woman because that woman reminded him so much of his mama. Sounds crazy but hear me out.  People date and deal with those they know and who they’re more comfortable with.  The closest woman to any man is their mother and if you grew up in a house like mine, my mother screamed on me when I was out of line, she would whoop my tail in the grocery store, she would put me in check no matter the circumstances.  If that’s the only type of woman a man knows then who else is he supposed to be with?

I used to be in love with a man who was in love with another woman.  This other woman put him through hell but that’s who he wanted because that’s who is mom was.  I always hear that women with “daddy issues” tend to get a man like their father and I believe it’s the same for men.   That sucks for good women like myself, but I tell you what I will die a single woman if a man expects me to constantly act out of character, I can’t and I won’t do it.

So to all of my Karrine Steffans, Evelyns, Kendras, & other hoes with crazy characteristics…..I applaud you to a certain extent.  I’m taking notes and I guess I need to find a man who I share similar characteristics with their mom…..LOL (J/P, I think that’s weird as shit, the Oedipus complex.)

To all of you men who choose the smuts over the real women…..go play in some traffic.  Why would anyone choose to deal with bullshit everyday? And to my good women, don’t let a man bring you out of character, if it’s not you then don’t pretend he should love you for you and you deserve to wait for that special person.


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